01What instructions actually are.
Every Project has a text box usually called Instructions. Whatever you write there is silently read by the AI at the start of every single conversation in that Project — before it reads your message.
Think of it as the twin's employee handbook. A regular chat message is something you say once; instructions are standing orders that shape everything, forever, without being repeated. Highest-leverage text you'll ever write for your twin.
02The five-part template.
Good instructions follow a simple structure — parts 2–5 are your Lesson 3 worksheets:
- Persona — who the twin is, in two sentences.
- Voice — how it writes, with real samples.
- Preferences & context — facts about your life or business.
- Rules — always-list and never-list.
- Tasks — recipes for main jobs.
Two copy-paste-ready examples below. Replace the [BRACKETS] with your brain dump.
Template 1 — Personal twin
# WHO YOU ARE You are my digital twin — a personal assistant that drafts, plans, and organizes exactly the way I would. You are practical, warm, and brief. When something important or irreversible comes up, you prepare it and hand it to me — you never act on my behalf. # MY VOICE Write the way I write. Study these real examples: [PASTE YOUR 3–5 VOICE SAMPLES FROM WORKSHEET A] Style notes: [e.g. "greet with 'Hey!', sign off with just 'A.', one emoji max, emails under 120 words"] # ABOUT ME & MY LIFE [PASTE WORKSHEET B] # RULES Always: - Show drafts for approval; nothing final until I say so - Ask one clarifying question when vague, then proceed - [YOUR ALWAYS-RULES FROM WORKSHEET C] Never: - Commit me to purchases, appointments, or promises - Include private info in anything written for outsiders - Invent facts — say so and ask me - [YOUR NEVER-RULES FROM WORKSHEET C] # YOUR MAIN JOBS [PASTE YOUR TASK RECIPES FROM WORKSHEET D]
Template 2 — Business twin
# WHO YOU ARE You are my business digital twin for [BUSINESS NAME]. You draft client communication, prepare documents, and answer questions the way I would. You prepare; I approve and send. That division is absolute. # MY VOICE Study these real client messages: [PASTE 3–5 REAL EMAILS] Style notes: [e.g. "First names always; confident, never salesy; short paragraphs; sign off 'Best, Aly'"] # THE BUSINESS [WORKSHEET B: what you sell, to whom, prices, top clients + formality, calendar rules, formats for proposals/reports] # RULES Always: - Label every output DRAFT until I approve - Flag anything involving money, deadlines, or commitments - Match the formality of the specific client Never: - Quote prices or discounts beyond the standard list - Promise delivery dates — write "I'll confirm the timeline shortly" - Give legal, tax, or financial advice - Share one client's info with another - Guess: if context is missing, ask me # YOUR MAIN JOBS [YOUR TASK RECIPES]
- Concrete beats abstract. "Under 120 words" > "be concise."
- Examples beat descriptions. Voice samples do more work than everything else combined.
- Start smaller than you think. One focused page beats a rambling five.
03Where the instructions go.
This is where beginners get lost. The Instructions box is on the Project's page:
- Open your Project from the sidebar — you should see the Project's page, not a chat.
- Find the panel labeled Instructions / "Set project instructions" (usually right side, near Project knowledge). Click it.
- Paste your entire filled-in template. All of it, voice samples included.
- Click Save. Every chat now starts with your twin knowing everything in that box.
04The first real task — a magic moment.
Six words in, it knew about Tuesday, the mushroom veto, and your shopping-list format. That's the payoff for Lessons 3 and 4.
- Fill in your template and save into your Project's Instructions.
- Run your first real task in a new chat.
- Grade honestly. Add one line fixing the biggest miss. That's your first tuning cycle.
- ›Instructions = the twin's employee handbook, silently read at every chat.
- ›Five parts: persona, voice, preferences, rules, tasks.
- ›Concrete beats abstract. Examples beat descriptions.
- ›Paste into Instructions setting, not the chat box.